The truth is, in almost all cases no penis is ever too big for you, especially with women in their 20’s or 30’s. Some difficulties do arise for older women when trying to accommodate particularly well endowed men, although even then with sufficient lubrication and sexual arousal it is still possible.

If you and your partner are having trouble matching up in the bedroom, try introducing some more foreplay to get you in the mood. Studies show that a fully aroused woman can in almost all cases handle penetration by any size penis. Part of the issue is, when you’re concerned about the size of his penis and you’re anticipating entry, the muscles in and around your vagina can tense up like any other, making it difficult for penetration even with arousal. In most cases extra lubrication can help with this but you could also try a long sensual all-over massage, to really mellow you out and turn you on before intercourse. And if this is still a problem, you could always go and get your self a bigger toy to get you used to the idea of a bigger penis…