It is a modern world we are living in and it is (or at least should be) deprived of prejudice and stereotypes. We have the colorful Pride Parade all around the world visited by both gay and straight persons. Still, when someone says he/she is “bisexual” people do not actually get it. They immediately think that it is simply an indecisive person incapable of having a monogamous relationship. Is that truly so? It is highly unlikely. Bisexuals are capable of having a normal relationship, in spite or thanks to that urge. Often, it is the thing that spices up relationship both the emotional and the physical sides. The love games bisexuals play are twice as fun.

Understanding the Urge

Before moving onto the fun part, you must trust your partner and understand his/her specific needs. First, you need to realize that, even though your partner is attracted to sex other than yours, that does not mean he/she will start a sexual relationship with someone that is not you, regardless of the sex. Fidelity comes with the persons’ character, not its sexual orientation. Basically, being bi is the potential to be attracted to persons of both sexes that distinct your partner from straight/gay persons. Shoving this major aspect of your life together under the rug, would be the biggest mistake you can make. Instead, discuss with your partner about his/her feelings about that and try to be as involved as you can. If that means doing a bit of exploring with him/her, why not? It can turn up to be a great adventure.

Shaping Your Sex Life

The sexual orientation of one partner can, but does not have to, have some major impact on your relationship. Sometimes, you may end up with ruined self-confidence, because he/she has tried it all, and you think that perhaps men/women are better than you. Do not allow that to happen. If you are going to let your partner being bi influences your sexual relationship, than you should at least make that influence a good one. Consider it a chance to explore, setup up a mood and experiment beyond your boundaries which will help you to find out (at least indirectly) what is it like to have sex with both men and women, what are the differences and what you can learn from it.

Supporting and Participating

No one is expecting you to tell your partner to go and have sex with other people, just because his/her urge requires that. Still, some understanding and support is expected. Still, you can try to spice up your sex life, and why not, even be a participant in some sex games. Here, we are referring to everything from sexy Halloween costumes and sex toys to hiring an escort agency. In fact, people from Red Door Agency have noticed an increased number of couples coming to them for such services, so they can fulfill their desires, with complete discretion. Note that threesoms and other sex games and toys are not mandatory, but if you feel comfortable with it, then go for it! Taking actions such as this will not only make your partner happier, but it will also enrich your sex life in ways you cannot imagine. If you are not quite appealed with the idea of involving another person in your intimacy, then you can try with using vibrators or vibrating eggs, which can actually make you or your partner experience the out-of-this-world pleasures.

Do not think of your partner’s sexual orientation as a limiting factor. On the contrary, consider it a gateway to a world full of unknown, yet, exciting and incredibly sexy things. Together, you can enjoy all the perks of your partner’s bi-experience and learn some tricks you could only imagine before.