We’re at that time of year again: Cupid is circling the nation with his bow and arrow well and truly poised and ready for action.

But rather than the god of desire and erotic love, is Cupid the symbol of wilting garage flowers, a takeaway and, if you’re lucky, a slightly prolonged session of missionary like last year?

Relationships don’t mean you have to hang up your horny side; sexual dry spells are normal. If your libido is lacking on the desire scale, we have just the thing.

PinkyDiaries’ top tips for a sexcellent sex life will help
bring the buzz back into the bedroom and have you focused on being turned on
instead of turning the light off.

Hide and Tweak

The daily grind can often lead you to forget to be playful or cheeky with your partner.

How about a game of sexy hide-and-seek to build up a sense of anticipation and bring an element of fun and spontaneity into foreplay?

Get yourself ready and feeling sexy with an empty house and no distractions. Leave a trail of sexy clothes from the front door to your chosen room, ready for your partner to find and follow.

This sexy take on Hansel and Gretel will have your partner eating out of your hands, discovering you stripped down to your underwear and ready for action.

Introduce Your Buzzing Buddy!

A great way to spice things up between the sheets is to bring your buzzing buddy into the bedroom!

Vibrators are normally associated with solo sex play and masturbation, but they can be a brilliant way to open up endless possibilities and add more pleasure to partnered sex. They are also associated with stronger
orgasms through direct clitoral stimulation and can transform the way a woman reaches climax.

Whether you use your vibrator on your partner and watch them get aroused, put on a sexy show and force your partner not to touch or use your vibrator as an addition to positions where the clit could get left out,
all three of you are guaranteed to get a buzz!

Spread Your Wings

Don’t be afraid to spread your wings and branch out from your four walls. Breaking out of the usual bedroom routine can be a thrill in itself. Whisk each other away to a hotel in a town neither of you have visited before.

Discovering a new place and routine whilst exploring each other’s bodies is a perfect way to spice up your sex life.

Striptease

Over time, it can be easy to get completely hung up on insecurities and forget that your partner would love you to put on a sexy show and strip for them.

Pick some music that you feel comfortable with and that you can see yourself undressing to and raid your wardrobe for something sexy that you can easily take off.

Nothing will be nicer than seeing your partners jaw drop as you strip down. Dim the lights, pump up the volume and get dancing (and remember: they can look but not touch!).

Bring the Buzz Back Today

If your sexual juices are well and truly flowing, why not take a visit to BuzzPinky, where there is a fantastic range of sex toys, guaranteed to thrill and help resurrect your passion and free your fantasies?

We hope you have fun waking the neighbours!